A COMPREHENSIVE GUIDE TO CUSTOMS, RITES AND TRADITIONS IN BUDDHISM

Singapore is a melting pot of cultures. There are many different traditions and religions but none bigger than Buddhism. It is the main religion in Singapore and it makes up almost 3/5th of the population. 

When it comes to death, a Buddhist funeral service provides a reminder of the Buddha. It marks the moment when the soul transcends this plane of existence, a major occasion for both the deceased and their loved ones. 

Here’s a closer look at the customs and rites in Buddhist funerals: 

What is a Buddhist Funeral? 
A Buddhist funeral service varies between one school to another. Some funerals are traditional and ritualistic while others are more simple and solemn. Generally, the main customs in Singapore are the Mahayana and Theravada customs.

A funeral can take place at the family’s home, a funeral parlour or even at void decks. An altar will be set up as the focal point during the funeral, symbolising the spiritual journey of the deceased. 

Monks will be present sometimes, leading the mourners with prayers and chants for spiritual guidance. 
At the end of the funeral, a cremation ceremony will be held for those that have opted for it. This represents an important way to release the soul from the physical form.  

Buddhist Beliefs About Death 
In Buddhism, death is viewed as the natural cycle of existence. It is deeply rooted in the teachings of Siddhartha Gautama, the Buddha. His teachings talk about the concepts of impermanence and how everything in life is transient, including life itself. 

By understanding and accepting impermanence, one can free themselves from the attachments and suffering of life. This plays a crucial role in the way Buddhist approach death and the funeral rituals: 

Reincarnation and Karma: Buddhist believe in the cycle of birth, death and rebirth. This is called samsara and the specific circumstances of one’s rebirth is determined by their karma, the accumulation of good or bad actions. 

Nirvana: The ultimate goal in Buddhism is to reach Nirvana. It’s the Buddhist version of heaven and death is seen as a transition into this realm. 

Compassion and Love: The teachings of Buddhism emphasise compassion (karuna) and loving-kindness (metta). 

During a funeral, these qualities are expressed through acts of generosity, support, and understanding toward the grieving family.

Merit Making: Buddhist believe in accumulating merits through virtuous deeds. This can positively influence the deceased in their journey through the afterlife.

Buddhist Funeral Etiquette 
Mourners are expected to dress in sombre and modest attire. Vibrant colours should be avoided and it is recommended for friends to inform the family before visiting. Upon arrival, mourners should quietly proceed to the altar and say a few words of blessing. 

You can choose to join in on the chants or remain silent if you’re unfamiliar with the prayers. While not obligatory, it is considered thoughtful to bring sympathy gifts for the grieving family. 

If the funeral includes a cremation ceremony, attendees may be invited to witness this final rite. It’s important to approach this moment with solemnity and respect, recognizing the symbolic significance of releasing the soul from the physical form.

Buddhist Mourning Period 
Once the Buddhist funeral service is over, the family may choose to observe a mourning period. Most branches tend to hold one as a continuation of the spiritual journey for both the departed and the grieving family. 

The mourning period typically lasts up to 100 days, with services held on the 3rd, 7th, 49th and 100th day. These ceremonies are crucial to the rebirth process where it is believed that the reincarnation will take place during this time. 

This period also gives others the opportunity to continue supporting them. Friends and family are encouraged to engage in reflection and meditation, providing the opportunity to contemplate the impermanence of life. 

Buddhist Funeral Service
A Buddhist funeral is more than just a sombre event; it’s a profound spiritual journey designed to guide the departed soul towards rebirth. The best way to pay your respects is by holding a proper funeral service in memory of your loved one. 

So if you’re looking for a Buddhist funeral service near you, don’t hesitate to contact us to find out more.

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